Vince wrote:cthia wrote:Ouch! I feel as though I've just been laid across your lap and spanked like McQueen whacked Hamish.
Relax, kzt, Rose. I agree. I accept - that to expect total trust in the fashion that I'd hoped - is a bit naive. I simply find it ironic - that in peace, that in an Alliance, that in trust, is also born suspicion, paranoia, hesitation, uneasiness, caution. I personally can see the heaping helping of irony. And I spoke my mind. And regardless of how prudent it may be to maintain one's spies, it all seems a bit... untrustworthy. Trust tethered with untrust. And that seems, to me, to be a house built of fragile straw. So is life, I suppose. Today's phraseology would be "it is what it is?" Little wonder that I hate that phrase so much, as it reeks of complacence and resigned acceptance.
But, alas, I guess bricks can be built of straw.
However, I still cannot avoid the glaring irony.
I hear my family and friends in my ear now. "You're too kind and decent."
My nieces and sisters constantly say, "You were born a millennia too soon."
Perhaps.
Don't worry, cthia, allies would never do anything so crass as to actually spy on each other.
It's called "Keeping an eye on things."
Or as President Ronald Reagan said, "Trust but verify." Although he said that about the former USSR, which was not an ally at the time, the saying holds true even with close allies.
Note: According to the Wikipedia entry, Trust but verify is actually a Russian proverb that Reagan used as a signature phrase in discussing relations with the Soviet Union. "The original Russian proverb is a short rhyme which states, Доверяй, но проверяй (doveryai, no proveryai)."
But you really can't miss the irony in having to treat one's allies the same way as one's potential enemy.
"Trust but verify," is what the US is doing to Iran regarding its nuclear enrichment program.
Glaring irony is all. Bipolar.