cthia wrote:Heck, I believe Grayson would have made huge concessions to Haven to get Honor back in the wake of her torture. And she wasn't even the Protector.
Although it is true that the Protector was so convinced that Honor would die in the fight against Burdette, that he was prepared to let William Fitzclarence walk away free; before Honor stopped him and forced the duel (thereby saving the Protector's honor) - that is different from bowing to an enemy that shows itself to be so unscrupulous as to torture an prisoner.
In WW2 the Japanese would execute some prisoners in an effort to show how ruthless they were. Instead of having the intended effect of making the Americans afraid to fight; it made them so angry and eager to fight and kill the Japanese, that the command had to bribe soldiers with ice cream to get them to bring in prisoners for interrogation.
The simple fact is that an enemy which cannot be trusted to treat prisoners correctly, then cannot be trusted to carry out an exchange. With the capabilities of CGI in the Honorverse, it is not even possible to be sure the captive is still alive: witness how believable the realistic HD replay of Honor's "execution" was.